KNOW YOUR PRIORITIES

According to my life experiences i have set my priority levels

Here are my priorities in descending order

1)HEALTH
It includes three levels 
a)body(physical exercise is necessary)
b)mind(let the thoughts flow freely) and
c)soul(remember each and every organism has a divine spirit in it)
All the above three are interlinked if any one of them is disturbed the two others will also get disturbed

2)CAREER

3)FAMILY AND FRIENDS

4)SOCIETY

IF YOU FOLLOW THIS ORDER YOU WILL BE HAPPY  

                                                                                                             - K.L.R

UNDERSTAND FEAR DO NOT TRY TO CONTROL IT

• FEAR is one of the emotions which is a part of human life.
• Most of us think that it is unnecessary feeling and try to suppress or maximum try not to express it.
• But every thing in this world has its own right to exist.
• Nobody has the power to deny this fact.
• If we fear that something should not happen in your life,the more you fear the more are the chances to occur.
• Suppose if you have the fear of road accidents and always think that i should not die of road accidents,the chances of yourself getting involved in an accident increases.
• So experience the fear freely and allow it to do its own work and it wont bother you much.
• Just like heads and tails of the same coin, fear and courage,happiness and sadness,patience and impatience have their own role to play.
• Do not underestimate any feeling and no need to feel guilty that you are experiencing negative emotions.

EFFECT OF PARTIALITY SHOWN BY PARENTS AND TEACHERS ON CHILDREN

Effect of Partiality

• In the above flowchart you might have noticed the effect of partiality shown by parents and teachers.
• It is one of the major cause for the obstacles faced by children.
• The child becomes pessimistic in nature.
• It leads to communication gap between children.
• I request parents and teachers to treat children equally. 

             

EFFECT OF ALCOHOLISM ON EDUCATION AND FAMILY SYSTEM

EFFECT OF ALCOHOLISM
                               

• From the above picture we can say that alcoholism leads to violence in families.
• If the children get exposed to quarrels between parents they feel insecured and develop several problems like stage fear,lack of leadership qualities,unable to take quick decisions,etc
• So i request each and every parent sincerely to settle any issue between them in the absence of children.
• DO NOT LET THEM KNOW ANY FAMILY PROBLEM

WHY A CHILD IS UNABLE TO ENJOY HIS CHILDHOOD???

CHILDHOOD A CURSE OR BOON???

• How a child is made a robot without any chance for his overall development is clearly given in the picture.
• First the natural abilities and skills of the child should be observed,then his goal should be decided by himself.
• In this process parents and teachers should act as guides but not dictators.
•  All the students need not be IITians,doctors,e.t.c
• Maximum hours of the day are spent in front of books in the name of work sheets,assignment papers,project works,weekly exams,e.t.c
• No doubts clarification.
• All these factors lead to decreased psychological growth and physical growth.

HOW TO IMPROVE CONCENTRATION LEVELS???

Improving  concentration

• When you start reading, listening or doing anything,first thing which matters is flow of thoughts.
• Observe the picture and you will get an idea if you get deviated for sometime , say "fluctuations are normal" in your mind.
• Allow the thoughts to flow freely in your mind.For that you need to practice "the manthra".
• But when you suppress the thoughts it leads to further disturbance just like releasing a suppressed spring {newton's 3rd law}

WHAT IS STRESS MANAGEMENT???

• In the previous post i have started discussing about stress management with the help of a flow chart i would discuss role of stress in your life.My guru in intermediate level told me stress generates majorly when we start analysing things excessively.
•  Difference among students starts form attention in the class.Some children listen to class attentively while  others cannot.
• This  is not due to difference in I.Q levels.Generally majority of the students have same I.Q  levels.But during listening some students will analyse the information and will miss few points then they will fail to cope up with the teaching speed of teacher.
• If this thing repeats several times it leads to stress and the student may develop phobia for certain subject.
•  First student should completely accept the contents told by teacher.
• Then if he have any doubts he should clarify them after the completion of class.
• In the mean while you can write your doubts in short form.
• By this teaching flow wont get disrupted and teacher will have good impression on you.
• Dont ask the doubt suddenly  because you will stop the flow of information and secondly sometimes teachers may forget things related to them and there are chances for them to feel embarrassed.
• So asking the doubts after finishing the class will reduce your anxiety  and stress levels.
• Children i will publish another post related to studies as soon as possible.
• Comments and queries are encouraged
  
   I would explain some more aspects which are responsible for the generation of stress and solutions for them.